Community Kindness - Love, Loss, Loyalty and Compassion

April 20, 2008

 I’ve mentioned my wife’s website before which was inspired by one of our rescue dogs. Among many great offerings, Bunny Roo Beagle also features user-contributed rescue stories from all over the world about dogs who have found loving homes and how they came into their good fortune. The rescue of Sophie will be on the front page. You can find archived rescues here. Her most recent story was contributed by Jodi and Scott and focuses on Sophie, a pup rescued by local Wildlife services and adopted by these wonderful folks. That alone is more than kind enough to warrant a feature story here, but what I found particularly inspirational is the tale that led to Sophie’s adoption.

Before Sophie, there was Sammi - Scott and Jodi’s Brittany spaniel. I will let Jodi tell the story of how Sammi disappeared one cold December day because her touching tale certainly doesn’t require a clumsy re-write by me, but I do want to focus on what happened shortly after Sammi’s disappearance. In the days and weeks following their loss, Jodi and Scott found help in the form of “…a quilting group who drove around searching for Sammi after their Sunday meetings, a pastor who announced our information to his congregation, garbage and utility vehicles that had copies of our flier in their vehicle and the head of the school transportation department who put fliers in all the country school buses.” Even a vet who went out of his way to spread the word about Sammi (and who eventually introduced the family to Jodie) joined in the search.

It never fails to inspire me to find that such community spirit is still alive and well in the world. There are people who will still go out of their way to be kind and help their neighbors and their kindness is rarely motivated by any potential self-gain but is inspired by affection, empathy, faith and sympathy. We should, all of us, keep our eyes open for opportunities to help our neighbors. Don’t just brush by the lost pet fliers hanging on the mailbox. Stop and read. Pay attention to those who surround you and think of ways you can contribute to making their lives a little bit better in whatever way you can.

What follows is Jodi’s story in her own words. And it would not be kind were I to fail warn you that you might want to grab some tissues before you click on continue reading - Continued…

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5 Quick Acts of Kindness – Do a Few Today

April 16, 2008

5.gifKindness is a lot like a prankster’s gift… even if it comes in a small box, the prize can be remarkably big or, conversely, a big and brightly wrapped box might not have anything that spectacular inside (unless you’re morbidly fascinated by bubble-wrap). Think about it… if I give $50 to Bill Gates, is he really going to be all that impressed? Sure, to me, it’s a noticeable amount of money, but he would earn more in the time it took him to open the envelope than he’d gain from its contents. On the other hand, a $5 bill handed to a homeless man could make the difference between going hungry and going to bed with a full stomach. With that in mind, here are some relatively small acts that can really make a positive difference in somebody’s life despite the minor effort required.

  1. Hold a door for somebody even if you have to wait a bit for them to catch up. Don’t look impatient about it and give them a smile as they breeze by.
  2. Thank somebody for holding the door for you. Do it with a sincere smile.
  3. Actually take an interest in the response when you ask somebody, “how ya doin?”
  4. Leave a 100% tip at lunch today.
  5. Let a merging car in with plenty room and give the driver a wave.
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A Lesson in Perspective

April 15, 2008

2195701_low.gifI’ve been griping about work lately. Why not? It’s been rough. It’s gotten rougher and the outlook is for it to get rougher still. But the truth of the matter is that I have little legitimate cause to complain and it took a visit to the local convenience store yesterday to make me realize what a shameless moron I really am. It was an opportunity lost but a lesson I’ll carry with me that, when you get right down to it, how we live our lives is really all about the perspective we chose to take.

I was second in line and the gentleman in front of me was chatting up the cashier who seemed completely confused by his gregarious nature. Among other things, he actually thanked the woman for her smile! And I, purveyor of pleasantness, kindler of kindness, advocate of amiability that I am, actually thought the following thought, “man, that’s over the top… less chatter, let’s pick up the pace.” You don’t need to point out the hypocrisy. The host of a blog on kindness actually thought such thoughts? Yes I did. I hang my head in shame.

Let me further paint the picture that I was in a hurry to get home from another miserable day at work. Let me also point out that I’m paid well, am in reasonably good health, have a great life outside of work and really want for nothing (other than a less stressful job and a less crazy neighbor). I chose to let a bad day make me a less-than-good person that day.

The nice guy in front of me would best be described as rode-hard-and-put-up-wet. He looked like life had dealt him a less than fair hand. He was excessively short of stature, prematurely aged by sun, seemed dangerously thin and relied on a cane to walk. He also lacked good peripheral vision as evidenced by his sudden realization on turning his head slightly that I was waiting beside him for my turn to pay. But when he did notice, an amazing thing happened.

This man, who for all appearances looked like he had legitimate cause to be grumpy, beamed me the warmest smile you’ve ever seen, apologized for holding me up and told me, “I’m just so happy with life I get caught up in the small-talk sometimes.” His face literally lit up and transformed my impression of him from somebody whose life has been full of hard knocks into somebody who makes the world a better place in which to live. I envied the guy his positive spirit. Idiot that I am, all I could think to say in return was, “No worries. Take your time.” A few seconds later he was out of my life and a great opportunity was lost.

This gentleman, in the few minutes he occupied my little sphere of existence, taught me to never judge a book by its cover, find the positive, live for the now, don’t sweat the small stuff and to recognize the people who pass fleetingly through our lives as having worth, merit, dreams and ambitions beyond the context of the moment. In a few seconds, he passed on a wealth of values and lessons and I wasted the opportunity with, “No worries. Take your time,” rather than, “thank you for being such a positive inspiration. Here’s my card. I’ll be writing about you on my blog so that the world will know there’s folks like you out there.”

Should you ever stumble across this post, sir, I give you my thanks. For the lessons, certainly; but mostly just for taking the time to make the world a better place to live for the cashiers and grumpy office workers whose lives you briefly touch and transform. God bless you.

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