The Heroes in My Life

June 2, 2008

 It’s easy to recognize heroics in the man who rescues a child from a burning building or the cops who put their lives on the line for us every day. It doesn’t take much to find valor in a soldier on a battlefield or a daredevil search and rescue team. The notice and accolades are richly deserved for those and others who risk it all for us. But they aren’t the only heroes.

I define a hero as a person whose actions or presence saves or greatly improves another person’s life. So I’d like to take this week to recognize my personal heroes; and not one of them, I’d wager, knows just how much I value them. They are the family I married into. They are the people who fill all the last remaining voids in my life. I’d found peace and contentment in almost every area of my life prior to marrying my wife but until that day, I was oblivious to the vast emptiness left by the absence of a family of my own.

This week is my tribute to them.

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Categories: Giving Thanks.

A Very Human Suffering

May 20, 2008

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Emotions run a little hot when you think about jobs, the economy, the housing crisis, the anemic dollar, the near extinction of the American manufacturing force, the outsourcing of American jobs overseas and, finally, the inability to throw a rock in an American store without hitting something labeled “Made in China.”  

I myself have included words in posts along the lines of “stop coddling China.” That little gem was a fragment of a post on the failure of US politicians to live up to their obligations to American citizens.

I am frustrated.

I am disheartened that we turn a blind eye to a nation with a questionable human rights record as long as the cheap goods keep coming. I am baffled by our seeming willingness to sell our souls like crack-addicts for one more inexpensive children’s toy even if it comes with a double helping of lead paint on the side. But I want to make clear that none of my bitterness or resentment is directed at the Chinese people.

At the heart of my disquiet are the twin daggers of a nation without real freedom (China) and another nation with rapidly dissipating freedoms and economic strength (the US). I hold the governments of both nations accountable for their individual faults. But for the people, the citizens, the average man or woman just trying to scrape by, for them I have nothing but respect and compassion.

On Monday, May 12, disaster struck China in the form of a magnitude 7.8 earthquake which may have claimed more than fifty thousand lives. The devastation is indescribable, the pain and suffering, unimaginable.

I find myself humbled by the tragedy which exacted its deadly toll with indifference to borders, mindless of nationality and unsympathetic to age or race or gender. The men, women and children whose lives were extinguished could have just as easily been German, Iranian, Russian or American. This was not a democratic event. This was not a communist event. This was a human event and, for that, touches us all.

In time, wounds will heal. In time, men and women will go back to arguing about taxes, jobs, economies and politics. In time, things will return like they always do to long valleys of mundane minutia and triviality between sharp, punctuating peaks of defining or tragic events.

For now, though, we weep wherever we may be, on whatever shores we may call home, under whatever form of government we may toil, for our brothers and sisters in China. My heart is broken into countless pieces; for each life lost, for each person who lost somebody. May you find peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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Potential and Choice

May 17, 2008

crossroads.gifEver notice what an odd world we live in? I have. I marvel at it every day. I stand in awe of the beauty and majesty of God’s creations around me knowing full well no man or woman could look out over an unspoiled wilderness and not be touched in some way; not recognize the value of preserving it. Then, in contrast, I scratch my head in confusion knowing that same man or woman won’t buy an energy efficient light bulb because they don’t like the color light it casts.

We are creatures of conflicting duality; simultaneously noble and ignoble, caring and unkind, selfless and selfish. The same man who jumps off a bridge to save a drowning woman might, tomorrow, lie on his resume to get a job he does not deserve. We could applaud a woman’s character one morning and find ourselves wishing for her downfall for some illicit act later that same evening.

So we’re conflicted. We’re saints and scoundrels, all of us. But maybe that’s by plan. Maybe we’re in a precarious balance for a reason. Perhaps that’s just the way the universe, and everything in it, is created, existing in one state only for so long before toppling into another state of being depending on variables.

Consider every planet that is in an orbit. A little bit faster and it will spin free to fly off into the void. A little bit slower and it will plummet towards its star. That same star is responsible for the creation of all the wonders in its solar system… the same things it will someday be responsible for destroying.

Every atom in the universe sits in a state of infinite potential. It may become part of so grand a thing as a star, as mundane as the sock on your foot or as offensive as the phlegm in your throat.

Even the universe itself was born into a state of uncertain potential, doomed to expand until every rock, every molecule, every atom and every particle eventually dissipates into nothingness or, potentially, to leap out into a brief and brilliant state of existence, only to collapse again into a common singularity no bigger than a marble but containing every bit of everything in itself.

Potential. At the heart of it all is that single world. But just as important is the word “choice.” What differentiates us from the planets, from the rocks, from the universe, stars, atoms and molecules is that we are capable of thinking about potential - of making choices that can decide what aspect of our potential we will fulfill (or fail to fulfill).

Will you allow yourself to become frustrated at gridlock traffic or will you turn up the radio and sing along to your favorite song - simultaneously choosing the potential for a positive day and possibly influencing a positive day in those witnessing your carefree indifference to the delay?

Will you let your life be ruled by fear, choosing a safe but wholly uninteresting life or will you accept that you’ve got one shot in this world and might as well make the most of it?

Will you surrender or fight? Will you live on your knees or on your feet? Will you accept failure as a lesson or let it defeat you? Will you earn what you want in life or spend your life complaining about the lack of handouts? Kind or cruel, honest or dishonest, helpful or hurtful?

Potential and choice. You are the master of your life - the only mortal, living being who truly gets to decide what happens, how it goes and how you respond to those things that are beyond your control and, ultimately, the only one responsible for those choices. Whether you believe a divine being placed you in this universe or it all happened by chaotic happenstance, the end result is still the same.

This is your life. These are the circumstances. The potential is limitless. Infinite. What will you choose to do? What kind of person do you choose to be? Your potential awaits.

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