May 14, 2008
Half way through the week, gang! It’s all downhill from here! To remind everybody the value of decency and kindness, here’s a letter submitted to The Vancouver Sun. Taking a few minutes out of your busy day to be kind to somebody can really make a difference. Why not give it a try today and see how you feel afterwards?
An act of kindness warmed a rainy day
Letter
Published: Saturday, May 10, 2008
I took my little girl (almost three) to St. George’s School Fair last Saturday morning and, not thinking straight, forgot to stop at the bank along the way. When we reached the front of the line at the JJ Bean stall, I realized I didn’t have enough money. I explained to the server that I needed to go to the ATM and asked if she could hold the last purple Smarties cupcake for my little girl.
A gentleman next to me heard my predicament and asked what I’d be getting. I said my little girl wanted a hot chocolate and the purple cupcake. He handed me a $10 bill. When I declined, he insisted. I asked for his address so I could post him a reimbursement and he said, “Call it a random act of kindness.”
The warm feeling brought tears to my eyes. I reassured him that, if I saw him again after going to the ATM, he’d get his money back. He told me not to worry about it.
I never again saw the man with the border collie and the generous heart but, to you, sir, I would like to say thank you for warming my rainy soul and providing my daughter a lesson about kindness that I will repeat to her for years to come.
Jennifer Timer
Vancouver
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Tags: act of kindness, dose of kindness, kindness
May 13, 2008
Wait! Where am I? Is this ToxicKindness? Don’t worry. You’re in the right place. As much as I loved my old theme for its simplicity, there was a serious lack of optimization. Nobody wants to invest hours into writing posts and not reach as wide an audience as possible. The new theme you are viewing now, while perhaps not as artistic in design, offers me the potential for wider reach and optimized search-friendliness.
Aside from the look, I’ve added in a little note to encourage readers to please submit your stories! Keep my faith going and show me that there are far more good people and good stories out there than the news would apparently like us to believe.
That’s essentially it for the changes for now. My intent and my blog content will remain the same.
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May 12, 2008
The relationship between smell and mood is a long-studied curiosity. There is some debate over whether smells actually impart a mood on the sniffer or if memory associations with a particular smell are the real cause of emotional response. That there IS a response, however, is accepted as a matter of fact. Your nose quite readily can lead you to a better day.
Realtors have a proven method for moving lived-in homes more quickly through the market and that’s the smell of baking bread or cookies greeting prospective buyers as they walk through the door. The scent instills a feeling of “home” in people. Vanilla has a similar influence and induces a sense of calm and general well-being and has been shown to promote patience or tolerance (who would want to walk away when there might be a pie or cookies coming out of the oven at any minute?!)
The next time you find yourself in the need of an emotional pick-me-up, try slicing a fresh lemon or orange and breathe deeply. Citrus smells in general tend to energize and uplift. Other smells with similar results are eucalyptus, mint and pine.
Do keep in mind that studies indicate there is a potential obstacle to any smell’s expected impact. If you’ve had bad experiences associated with a smell, the experience is likely to override the “normal” result and cause a negative mood or association with what should otherwise be a positive mood-enhancing result.
For example, many people find the smell of lime to be energizing. Real limes have the same effect on me. But, for quite some time, the smell of synthetic lime present in many cleaners and subtly noticeable in the smell of a Pepsi actually had a negative impact on me… I associated the scent with the artificial cleaners used in the sterile, institutionalized day-care center where I was always the first child dropped off and the last child picked up. Once I recognized the link, the negative impact diminished significantly. Still, I now experience, at best, a neutral response to the odor.
Assuming you have had no bad past experiences with lemons or oranges, why not slice into one and maybe drizzle some fresh juice into your tea for a quick morning boost? It’s a refreshing way to charge up without saturating your body with sugar or caffeine.
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Categories: Health.
Tags: energizing, mood, scent, smell, smells